It starts with Tory Burch, then Ferragamo, and never ends.
Some background, I am happily married for 9 years, have 5 beautiful children and earn 400K a year – me and my wife collectively.
I come from a simple, regular family where we bought Adonis shirts for $25 and went to the hat box for suits.
“it’s just fascinating how Tory Burch landed us at Chanel.”
My wife as well, dressed well but not expensive. They are not mutually exclusive.
My wife’s high-end shoes were Tory Burch shoes that she bought on sale for about $175. They were comfortable, nice and did the job.
Then came ferragamo, first bought on sale for $220, but when they got worn out, my wife loved them so much that she “needed them” again. Now however they cost $350. B”H money is not an issue but this became a necessity.
Fast forward 5 years and now a pair of Chanel flats is needed every season. They are so comfortable and classy – I don’t doubt that, it’s just fascinating how Tory Burch landed us at Chanel.
Another point is the kids. My daughter can’t have a basic coat while my wife has Moncler. What message are we sending the kids? What will happen when she gets married? Will she be able to live modestly like other young couples or will she have to shop at high-end retailers that offer payment plans?
It’s hard to make money, but it’s even harder living the way you did prior to making the money.
I am sure Women reading this are nodding in agreement. It seems impossible to ‘turn back’ once you up the designer ladder, you can’t go back.
“will she have to shop at high-end retailers that offer payment plans?”
If it’s up to me, we would not be shopping this way. But it’s a battle not worth fighting. Tried and failed.
I am doomed, You were warned 🙂
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